Monday, October 28, 2019

Week 22: Experiences and Highlights

Hello everyone! I was unable to send an email out last week, so this email will have a little bit more in it!

Chapter 1: Funny/Fun Experiences: 
     
"Oppa!... Oi?": One day, we approached a house and clapped our hands through the fence (almost every house has a wall in front of it so we have to clap instead of knocking on the door) and we heard a very faint, "Yeah?" After looking around for a second we finally spotted the woman on the other side of the closed glass door. I said, "Oppa!... Somos missionarios da Igreja De Jesus Cristo Dos Santos Dos Ultimos Dias!" She replied, "Ahh mrrmmrmrmrrmrmrmr" (through the closed door, so that is literally what I heard but we could tell she was saying no).   "..oi?" I said. "MRRMMRRRMRMMMMMMRRMMRMR ðŸ™‚" That's when we said bye and left because we knew she was saying no through the closed door, even though we couldn't hear her at all.

"Joseph Thomas": In my area, there is a guy who is always drunk and I can never understand what he is saying to me, but the one thing I do know is that to him I am Joseph (at one point I was Joseph Thomas) who is from Argentina and who speaks German, so that's why I never understand what he's saying. 

"What's My Name?": There's a little girl in my area and whenever she sees me she says, "What's my name?" in English. I always say, "Haha I don´t know! What's your name?" Then she giggles and leaves. I've tried to teach her to say, "What's your name?" But she still asks "What's my name?" every time.

"Do You Have Snacks?": During a district meeting, one of the other elders put his head on my shoulder. I was slightly confused, but then just thought, "He´s just a super nice guy." Then he said something that explained everything. "Hey. Do you have snacks?" Sadly I didn't have snacks to give, but it was really funny.

"Just Dance": There was a Halloween party a few days ago, and my companion and I played Just Dance for a few minutes. It was probably the best I've ever danced in my whole life (which doesn't mean it was good). It was actually really fun! 

Chapter 2: The Brazil Experience: 
     
"Leave Them Alone. They're from the church.": Another elder told me this story. So, apparently there are gang factions here in Brazil, and they actually protect the missionaries. One night, this elder and his companion were walking and in front of them, a guy started approaching. When he got close, another guy appeared and said, "Leave them alone. They're from the church." Then the guy approaching them turned around and left. 

"The greeting": The typical greeting in Brazil is a hug and a kiss on the cheek. I've always just shaken hands with everyone. But for the first time recently, when we were leaving a house, a woman pulled me in for a hug and kissed my cheek. Naturally, I have to return the greeting, too. It would be weird and probably rude to just stand there. I always forget that she tries to greet us like that whenever we go over to her house. Honestly I´m surprised this is the first time I've been hugged and kissed. I've been here 5 months ðŸ˜‚.

Chapter 3: The Everyday Experiences:
     
"Family Home Evening": Last week, I was given the opportunity to sing at a family home evening activity. I sang "Nearer My God To Thee" along with the Lyceum Philharmonic's recording of the song. I sang in Portuguese and English. I´m grateful for the opportunities I've had to perform!

"New Home": A week or two ago, we moved to a new house. It is awesome! Rumor has it that it's the biggest house in the mission. It's a fun time!

"When it rains, jump in the puddles (with caution)": A few weeks ago, it was really rainy. I was having fun and jumped in a couple of puddles just to goof off with my companion a little bit, but the next day, my shoes were filled with mold. They are clean now, but it was an unexpected sight...

"The Sacrament talk": On Sunday, I had the opportunity to speak in Sacrament meeting! I was nervous, but I think it went okay. I talked about missionary work and how members can help with the marvelous work. The biggest point I made was to not have fear. Don't have fear to bear your testimony. Don't have fear to talk about Jesus Christ. Don't have fear to keep your standards and share your beliefs!

"Divisions": This week, we went on divisions [splits] for 24 hours. My divisions companion was American and has 4 weeks in the field! So, I was kind of a trainer for a day. It was interesting to see the improvements I have made since my first few weeks in the field. I was able to lead lessons and talk to people. Portuguese is getting easier. We went and visited a few people who work at a haircut place because I taught them while my companion was getting a haircut a week or so ago. It was a little difficult without my companion because they had some Bible knowledge! But, when you don't know what to say, just bear your testimony. This is important because the spirit can teach people things that we can't!  I can testify that the promise the Lord gives us in Ether 12:27 is true!
     
Chapter 4: The Spiritual Highlights: 

"Maria": This week, we were given the opportunity to baptize one of our investigators. My companion baptized her and I confirmed her during Sacrament meeting the next day. I was nervous, but I can testify that if we trust in the Lord, everything works out!

"The 12 step meeting": We have an investigator who has a lot of difficulties with addiction. During one of our lessons, I felt prompted to invite her to the church's addiction recovery meeting. She accepted, and she went! She really liked it. Last time we talked to her, she said she was 3 days sober! Now we are trying to help her come to church. Please pray for her!

"Ministering Angels": Something I have learned recently is that we have the potential to be ministered to by angels. Not just other people, but literal angels from Heaven. It has become my goal to be ministered to by an angel. I encourage you all to go study about this topic, because it is really interesting. 

Everyone, I know that times can get tough. I know that. But don't give up the fight! Turn to the Lord, our Savior, and our Brother. He loves you and He can perform MIRACLES in your life! I have a strong testimony of that. Take time every single day to study the scriptures, to pray, and to meditate. Invite Christ to be a part of your life. I promise that you won't regret it.

I love you all so much! Have a great week!

Elder Tolen

Baptism!
Splits with Elder ____
Splits again!
Splits

Monday, October 14, 2019

Week 20: Opportunities and Answers

Hello, my dear people! How are you all doing?

This week was pretty normal. I have pinkeye at the moment so I can’t go out for a day or two, but besides that, it’s all good and normal!

Chapter 1: “French Horn is ‘trompa’ in Portuguese, right?": This week, while we were driving to a zone conference (we were in the mission president's car because he lives super close to us), he said to me, “Elder Tolen. French Horn is "trompa" in Portuguese, right? Because on December 1st, we will have our mission talent show. I think there are some music places in you area where you might be able to get a French Horn if you wanted to....” I got really excited. I haven’t played a horn in months. I’ve only buzzed on my mouthpiece a few times. I will happily accept an invitation to play horn again. I will have to let you all know what happens!

Chapter 2: “Good mornin-oops.. boa noite!”: One night, while we were walking, my companion saw someone walking by and said “Good morni- oops.. boa noite!” And then the person responded “Good morning! Boa noite!” Boa noite is good night in Portuguese. It was really funny.

Chapter 3: "I didn’t feel like walking down the stairs": One day after our lunch break, we were walking down a large set of stairs and there was a railing down the middle. As a joke, I sat on it as if I was going to slide down. My companion said, “I dare you,” so I was like, “Okay! I will!” I didn’t feel like walking down any more stairs, anyways. Long story short, let’s just say I didn’t make it far and I just might have gracefully ended up underneath the railing instead of at the end of it. But it was funny so it’s okay!

Chapter 4: "More opportunities": This last week, I have been praying for opportunities to learn and to grow. I have been asking for help with my stress and anxiety. And at church on Sunday, I got asked to pass the sacrament, say the closing prayer in Sacrament Meeting, and help for a few minutes in one of the children's Sunday school classes. I have had a few opportunities to talk to our Uber driver. I have had opportunities to sing and to share my love of music with others. I have had opportunities to embarrass myself and get up off the stairs that I “gracefully” “walked” down and try again, and I can testify to all of you, that the Lord will always lift us above our trials and difficulties if we just have faith in him. 

I have already shared this with a few of you, but I encourage all of you to go read Doctrine and Covenants section 122, and Ether chapter 12. I promise that as you prayerfully read those two chapters, you will feel God’s love for you. I testify that He loves you. He wants to help you and He will help you. Just turn to Him and He will bless you so much. You will start to notice His hands working in your life. 

Elder Tolen

Gorgeous view of Campinas
Shoe soles mildewed after getting caught in a rainstorm
Elder Tolen's favorite Brazilian food: pastels
Like giant, delicious hot pockets!
A note of encouragement from a ward member
Note from a ward member
Elder Tolen found a mulberry tree: just like home!
Also, Domino's pizza. Just like home!
And McDonalds...
...Just like...well...you know!

Monday, October 7, 2019

Week 19: Elder Pacheco

Chapter 1: Transfers: This week, I was transferred to a new area, and I love it! My area is called Planalto and my companion is Elder Do Carmo. It is a lot of fun. We get along really well. My area is in the city, which is different from my last area. We live in an apartment with the mission AP's, but I think we are moving to a new house in the next week or so.

Chapter 2: Honda Civic: I told my companion that I drive a Honda Civic at home, so he started a game where every time we see a Honda Civic on the streets, we point it out. Whoever sees it first and points it out gets a point. But, if one of us says, "Honda Civic" and we're wrong, then the other person gets a point. I´m winning at the moment. :)

Chapter 3: Music Opportunities: In this area, I've had a lot of cool musical experiences. For example, did you know that Nathan Pacheco served in my mission and he served in my current area? One of the members in my ward was talking about how she remembered when Elder Pacheco came over for lunch and stuff. I told her that I have had the opportunity to perform with him with Lyceum Philharmonic. I also sang at a baptism on Saturday with my companion and the AP's. That was a great experience!

Chapter 4: English Class and the Homework Assignment: So, in this area we are teaching an English class, and I told our students that listening to music in English and watching TV shows and movies in English will help a lot. So, I gave them all a homework assignment to go to my YouTube account and listen to my song "Carry Through," and translate it. Really subtle advertising, huh? ðŸ˜‚

Chapter 5: Our Grandma: One of the members in my ward we call our "grandma" because she loves us and takes care of us. We love to go over there and hang out with that family. It´s really fun. She remembers "Elder Pacheco" and experiences from when he was here.

Chapter 6: "I Visited Utah": The other day, we were walking with a member who was going to buy us lunch. I admit I was a little distracted, but my ears perked when I heard her say, "I visited Utah." I was like "Oh, cool! What part?" to which she responded, "Pleasant Grove." I got really excited because that´s where I live! Apparently, her son lives there, and she goes and visits him every year. So, when I get home, we are planning to meet up when she comes to visit and we will all get lunch together. What a small world!

Chapter 7: General Conference: This weekend we had the opportunity to hear from the apostles and Prophet of the Lord. I know that the things they say are true and that we still continue to receive revelation to this day and "We will continue to receive revelation until.... the great Jehovah shall say 'the work is finished.'" I exhort all of you to listen to and heed what the prophets say. What they say is true!

Elder Tolen


Elder Tolen and his new companion, Elder Do Carmo
Mom loves getting unexpected photos from members during the week!
A beautiful view of the temple in Elder Tolen's new area!
Elder Do Carmo gets creative with leaving calling cards!
So...which is it?
"Elder Do Carmo, can I eat this fruit I found on a tree?" "Yes." [takes bite] "I mean no!" Just kidding. yes.
Elder Tolen and Elder Do Carmo enjoy a refreshing drink
And some delicious lunch!
Rockin' the Brazil tie!
Newly hatched cicadas crawling up this tree...
Lunchtime
Elder Tolen singing at a baptism with Elder Do Carmo, Elder Gochnour, and Elder Lees